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Ashby had more of a 4th birthweek than a 4th birthday. We took her to Disneyland, but she also emphatically asked for a birthday party with her girlfriends from pre-school. We had a small gathering in Pioneer park for her on Thursday.
Ashby has been participating in the Little Rascalz multi-sport class on Tuesdays at Pioneer Park in Mission Hills. This has been wonderful for her. Thus far she has played La Crosse, Baseball, Soccer, Tennis and Field Hockey.
The above photo is from her last class. Prior to this class starting her and I were participating in our own Greco-Roman wrestling session on the grass. After we had paused, Ashby stumbled into the top of my head when I was looking down. She busted her lip wide open. Blood was everywhere. The other parents didn’t know we had stopped wrestling and it was caused by her stumbling. They only saw her bloody face and tears and had been witness to our shenanigans for the previous 15 minutes. Needless to say, their looks were telling. I felt like a total ass.
Anyway, I got the blooding down to a trickle and offered her to go home. She wasn’t having it. She immediately got out on the field as soon as the coaches started and got down to some field hockey.
Today, when she saw the above photo she said: “I’m holding my lip like that because it still hurt.” She’s such a bad ass.
And yes, I do recommend Little Rascalz.They have eleven locations in San Diego county.
Bubbles are fun to photograph. Children with bubbles is even better.
We attended a birthday party at Mission Bay Park. I haven’t been to that playground in over a year. I remember taking Ashby here as a very small child. Time flies by so fast.
Ashby (my 3.5 year old daughter) is amazing. Of course, if you read my blog, you already know this. One aspiration I have for my daughter is that she grow up with compassion for her fellow *man. After some thought, I’ve determined one way to achieve this is by spending time with her engaged in community work.
To this end, Ashby and I will be attending the September 5th La Jolla Shores beach cleanup that is organized by the Surfrider Foundation.
Participants should meet by the main lifeguard tower. The cleanup takes place from 9am until 11am.
All volunteers are welcome to participate and must sign a liability waiver, but volunteers under 18 MUST have a parent or guardian sign the waiver before the minor can participate. (Please note the NEW waiver as of August 2009)
Click Here for the beach cleanup Waiver Form.
Parenting is awesome.
Here is Ashby near my office with a penguin she adopted that was meant for Roe and was given by Steve and Brigette. We were having a wonderful father – daughter Saturday a couple weeks ago.
Brother and big sis.
Laaaaaadieeesss….
Awesomeness
Ashby has been attending swimming classes for a few months. She goes once a week with her mother. Ashby loves it even though her instructor pushes her to do things she would rather not. I had the unique pleasure of attending one of these swimming classes today. It was great! Ashby was almost as excited to have me there as I was to be there.
As for the quality of the swim school. I can testify that the staff were friendly and professional, the facilities well equipped and clean. Moreover, the cost is significantly lower than other schools Tara assessed.

Ricky Montalvo tweeted last Thursday that he had an idea for an El Camino Real photo project. Recently I too had been thinking about the King’s Highway after visiting a local San Diego Venture Capitalist; specifically, about the significance of the highway to the colonizing Spanish, the rich history associated with it and how it has changed so dramatically over the last 239 years. I thought it would be nice to travel the highway over a series a trips and shoot photos. So, when I saw Ricky’s tweet I direct messaged him a note and asked what he was up to.
Ricky Montalvo wrote:
Between So. SF & San Carlos, on El Camino Real are some of the best retail exteriors and motels I’ve seen. The idea I has was to simply go down that particular section of ECR and photograph the modern w/ the not so modern. Maybe even a “day in the life of” type journal.
Example: http://flickr.com/photos/rickymontalvo/2917159913/in/set-72157607781991439/
Although this is a processed image of mine, I’d like to approach it with more of a neutral look and color. Almost like this: http://www.lizkuball.com/southofcota/work/southofcota_13.jpg
I think you could do the same with your particular section down in SD and then we can publish it and ask the Flickr Community to fill in their parts, since ECR duns over 100miles of urban sprawl.
Thoughts?
-Ricky
Now, Ricky is an amazing multimedia artist and photographer. I, on the other hand, am not. I’m not afraid of embarrassing myself. So, I responded to Ricky with:
That’s awesome! I’ve thought for some time I would like to shoot up and down El Camino b/c it’s quintessentially CA. I had some ideas about the bells, but I like your idea better. Let’s do that. So the point to focus on the particularly urban sections, correct?
Ricky’s final response:
Correct. Nothing OFF El Camino, try to do a contrast of new and old. Get traffic, shops, motels etc. Give it that sense of urban sprawl and 70’s vintage with modern strip malls.
I’m going to take a stab at it this weekend. Let’s compare/colaborate via Flickr. I’ll create a private Flickr Group for us.
-Ricky
I asked Roy Kim, MindTouch VP of Engineering, to join me and Ashby (in case you’re new, that’s my [almost] 3 year old daughter) and we set out this morning. The El Camino Real begins in San Diego at Mission San Diego de Alcalá. This was the first Spanish Mission in California and was founded in 1769. While El Camino Real starts at the mission, in what is now called Old Town, San Diego, the highway breaks up quite a lot in San Diego County and doesn’t actually take shape until past La Jolla near Caramel Valley.
What we photographed will surely be very different from what Ricky shoots this weekend, but we had to capture the start of El Camino Real. We started at the Father Junipero Serra museum in Presidio park. The highway is supposed to begin at Taylor St. and Presidio St., but we found a bell, which are used to mark El Camino Real, above this spot closer to the museum. This must be the southern most bell on the Kings Highway.
After shooting around the Father Serra museum we shot in Old Town itself. Now, the fact of the matter is, today this isn’t El Camino Real, but the shots in Old Town were taken pretty much where the original El Camino Real would have been. The next outing I plan to shoot on El Camino Real near Caramel Valley, which is a suburban landscape with rolling hills and canyons.
I shoot with a Nikon d40x that has a stock 18-55mm lens. The Nikon d40x is a decent camera, but the lens I use is not that nice. Ashby shoots with a Fisher Price Kids’ Digital camera. I do not recommend this kids’ camera. Other than it being nearly indestructible the thing takes terrible photos and is actually difficult to use. For kids, I think a key chain digital camera is a better choice.
The conditions were pretty bad for photography. It was 68 degrees F and overcast with occasional drizzle. Alas, I wasn’t going to change plans on Ashby and we had a lot of fun. Ashby took it all very seriously. She framed her photos and was very excited to show me the shots. “Look at the steps I took a photo of.” “I took a picture of some leaves. Look. Look.” It was frickin’ awesome.
My Photos:
Ashby’s Photos:
For the record, Roy is a much more experienced photographer than myself; so, I’m interested in seeing his shots. And most of all, I can’t wait to see what Ricky comes up with.
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